* Do not spoil me. I know that it is not possible to have everything that I ask for but I am frustrated all the same.
* Do not be afraid to be strict with me. I prefer it this way as it helps me to find my place.
* Do not use force with me. Otherwise I will think that force is paramount to dialogue. I will behave better if you supervise me.
* Do not be mean. It makes me act in a way to avoid punishment, whatever I am doing.
* Do not make promises that you can't keep, because than I will lose my belief in you.
* Do not respond to negative attention-seeking behavior otherwise I will continue to act in this way and it will be a constant battle.
* Do not be too offended if I say "I hate you" because I don't really mean it but just want you to feel sorry for what you have done to me.
* Do not patronise me as it damages my confidence to assert my independence.
* Do not do things for me which I can do for myself. It belittles me and I remain dependent.
* Do not promote my bad habits. Give me as much help as possible to improve.
* Do not correct me publicly. I will be more responsive if you talk to me softly alone.
* Do not try to discuss my behavior in the heat of an argument, for some reason my hearing is not ideal during at that moment, and I am uncooperative. It's better to act as necessary, but let’s talk about it later.
* Do not lecture me. You will be surprised to learn how well I know what is right and wrong.
* Do not make me think that my mistakes are sins. I should be able to make mistakes without being made to feel useless.
* Do not scold me all the time, otherwise I will protect myself by pretending that I am deaf.
* Do not ask explanations for my bad behavior. Sometimes, I do not know why I have acted like this.
* Do not punish me too strongly. I am easily frightened and then I start to lie to avoid punishment.
* Do not forget that I like to experiment. This is how I learn. Therefore, I ask you to get used to it.
* Do not relieve me of consequences. I should learn from my oun mistakes.
* Do not pay attention to me if I play sick. I can take advantage of tha fact that you pay me more attention when I am sick.
* Answer when I ask you fair questions. If you don't answer, you will notice that I will stop asking and I will search for information elsewhere.
* Do not answer foolish and senseless questions. Otherwise, I shall disturb you all time with such questions.
* Never try to show that you are faultless and you are always right. It will make me think I can never be like you.
* Spend time with me. It’s important that we are together.
* Reassure me when I am frightened. Show me your courage!
* Do not forget to nurture me with words giving confidence and your patients. Sometimes I forget that you appreciate me. Please, don't mock me.
* Behave with me how you behave with your friends; then I shall become your friend. Remember: I follow your example.

And besides I love you very much...So, please, love me in return!